Do you know what love is? It's not just a feeling in your heart, it's also something you do!
Sometimes, saying "I love you" is super important. But showing love with your actions is like giving a big, warm hug without even touching! These are called concrete acts of love. "Concrete" just means real things you can see and do!
Let's think about ways we can show love to our family and friends, just by doing things!
Helping Hands (Acts of Service)
Imagine your grown-up is super busy.
What if you:
- Help put your toys away without being asked?
- Set the table for dinner?
- Help carry the groceries inside?
When you do these things, you're saying, "I love you and I want to help!" It makes everyone feel happy and cared for.
Special Time (Quality Time)
Do you love playing games or reading with someone special? That's a concrete act of love!
- Put down your tablet and listen when your friend tells you about their day.
- Ask a grown-up to play your favorite board game with just you.
- Go for a walk together and look for cool things.
When you give someone your full attention and spend time doing fun things together, you're saying, "I love spending time with you!"
Thoughtful Surprises (Receiving Gifts)
A gift doesn't have to be big or expensive! It's about showing you were thinking of someone.
- Draw a picture for your grandma.
- Pick a flower for your mom or dad.
- Share your favorite snack with a friend.
These little surprises say, "I was thinking of you and I care!"
Warm Hugs and High Fives (Physical Touch)
Sometimes, a hug says everything!
- Give your sibling a high five when they do something awesome.
- Cuddle with your grown-up while watching a movie.
- Give a gentle pat on the back to a friend who is sad.
These touches make people feel safe, happy, and loved!
Kind Words (Words of Affirmation)
Even though we're talking about doing love, kind words are like little gifts you can give with your voice!
- Tell your brother, "Great job on your homework!"
- Say to your friend, "You're a really good listener."
- Tell your grown-up, "Thank you for making my favorite dinner!"
These words make people feel special and appreciated.
Love isn't just a word, it's something you DO every day! What concrete acts of love will you do today?